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KendraK



Joined: 16 Mar 2008
Posts: 20
State or Province: Illinois

PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 6:56 pm    Post subject: Relationship Issues Reply with quote

Hi
Im not married, but my boyfriend was trying to buy a ring to get married around christmas time. We've lived together for a bit over 4 years. About 2 weeks ago we had a huge argument and he is picking up his belonging tomorrow morning and moving out. We are also having a baby in 2 months, Im very upset and he say that our relationship isn't working and their is no other options he is not in love with me anymore. I've made many suggestions to try to work it out and he says no; counseling, taking time apart so on...I just can not accept his decision it seems so irrational. Looking for suggestion or ways for me to cope during this time that pregnancy os suppose to be a happy time to share together.
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MaryM



Joined: 20 Apr 2006
Posts: 52
State or Province: New Jersey

PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He sounds very irrational, especially after 4 years and you are pregnant. He waits till now to make this decision. He may be feeling the pressure of have a child.

Anyway, the only think you can do is let him go and go on with having your child. You have too much to worry about without worrying about getting him back. If it is meant to be then heíll be back, especially with a child involved. If he canít make another effort to make it work and come back to you Ė having his child Ė then itís not worth your effort.
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KendraK



Joined: 16 Mar 2008
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 8:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know you are probably right, its just so hard to do.
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MaryM



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 7:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I totally understand and feel your pain. I've been there many times when you know what you should do -- but emotionally it's practically impossible.
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AngelDusty038@yahoo.com



Joined: 22 Sep 2008
Posts: 4
State or Province: Texas

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 1:27 pm    Post subject: if you cant beat 'em join 'em Reply with quote

I know what you are going thru I posted too... I found this web page, I really think you should at least take a look at. Google stop your divorce! by Homer McDonald. I know your not married offically but after 4 years I know I felt like I was. I am going thru a separation and it all feels so unreasonable and unfair. I read this page and I'm going to try it myself. I've done everything else. And if this doesnt work then I guess I just need to be patient and wait for Gods will to be done. Thats all we can do. Dont overwhelm yourself, especially while pregnant, focus on having as little conflict as possible and check out what the web page has to offer... i wish you the best and my prayers are with you and your baby. Congrats. Stay strong.
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