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21 Pregnant and Stressed!!

 
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michelledawn02



Joined: 06 Jun 2008
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State or Province: California

PostPosted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 10:54 pm    Post subject: 21 Pregnant and Stressed!! Reply with quote

Hi my name is Michelle. I'm 21 years old and 12 weeks pregnant. My problem is the father. He is making my life incredibly difficult and already threatening to take me to court and fight me for custody even though I never threatened to keep the child from him. I don't want him to have even joint custody because for one he has some serious issues with his temper and in my opinion is mentally unstable. He also lives with his mother who has ms, his uncle who has muscular distrofy, his brother who has epilepsy and just recently had a massive siesure, and his brother fiance. The mom, the unlce and the brother all have medical marijuana licenses and everyone except me ex smokes weed and cigarettes all day long in the house. The house is also the dirtiest place I have ever seen there are always rats and snakes in there and the brother and fiance just lay around all day and don't even try to find jobs. They also grow their marijuana inside the house and in the back yard and are planning on selling the weed they get from the plants in the back yard to people illegally. I think I have a pretty good case for sole custody but I just want some advice.
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punk182



Joined: 16 Jan 2009
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State or Province: California

PostPosted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 6:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey! My name's Rochelle and I'm also 21. I just found out i'm 6 weeks pregnant and I'm getting the same crap from my baby's dad.
He's being such a jerk and wants to fight me for it in court. It's ridiculous! He lives in an ugly town on the bad side and doesn't even have a job.
What I would actually want to do is give my baby to this couple I've know for the longest time that I know for a fact will adore it and be able to give it a great place to live and a great future. I just want what's best for my baby, and he's being really hard-headed and selfish. If I can't find a way to let that couple adopt my baby, I would keep it rather than let him have it because I know for a fact that I would take care of it WAY WAY better than he would or could. I don't even want him around. He's being so mean and rude and ugly to me it's not even cool.

I really just want to run away and have my baby somewhere else and put unknown on the birth certificate. I don't understand why he should have equal rights to me. It's not fair. A mother has rights to abort her child without the father's concent, but once the baby's born, has to share rights. it's ridiculous. We're the ones having to take care of our bodies, eat right, and give birth...i think that alone means a lot more than what the guys have to do...
it's so frustrating...i've never been so depressed... Sad
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