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klo0426



Joined: 12 Feb 2009
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State or Province: Michigan

PostPosted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 7:15 am    Post subject: First time mommy Reply with quote

Hello ladies. This is all completely new to me. I am 34 yrs old and 7 months along with my pregnancy. This will be my first child. Some days are good with the baby and then others are just hard. This in some ways has been a hard pregnancy on me. Not physically but emotionally. I haven't had "morning sickness" per say, but I did get sick alot during my 5th month....and that was due to alot of stress that happen to be around me. But really all in all it's been a pretty good pregnancy throughout.

My baby's father and I are no longer together, so here I am a single mother to be. Not something that I wanted to happen, but it is what it is. I can't change certain things that have happen over the past few months. I'll just say I never thought he could ever break me, never thought he would hurt me the way he has. And just so it's clear....he lied to me throughtout my whole pregnancy about being with me, while he actually had me, another girl, and then started a whole new realationship with his ex girlfriend. So when I say hurt me or break me that's what I mean. We are no longer speaking because he just can't seem to make himself talk to me....he acts as if I got pregnant on my own. So yes I have refered to him as my sperm donor.

The new girlfriend is someone who he had started seeing about 7 years ago but it didn't workout.....oh yeah did I mention we have been on and off for 13 years, also did I mention this girl is someone who he started dating before while we were living together.....as in a couple. So now they are back together and they have all these little wonderful plans for after the baby's born. "They are planning on being one little happy family". One little minor part they seem to forget.....I'm this baby's mother not her.

Yes I am hurt by the whole situation but i can't change it either. The only thing that I can do is do what's right for me and my child. Yes it will be hard and I do know that but I'm a strong person so I'll be ok.
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