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'dita



Joined: 06 Dec 2009
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State or Province: New Jersey

PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 7:35 am    Post subject: Need Advice................ Reply with quote

I am a 20 year old single mother from New Jersey. My daughter is 7 months old. I live with my mother and stepfather. My stepdad married my mother and sponsored my mom, my 10 year old sister and I for our green cards. We have received the green cards. We are from the Dominican Republic.

Long story short. I had a my baby with my 24 year old boyfriend. He is an illegal alien from the Dominican Republic. He quickly stopped providing and has even stolen money that I earned which was given to him to give to me.

Initially I was concerned that he would be deported if I took him to court. Now I realize something must be done. He apparently is not working and lives with friends in Brooklyn, New York. Before I gave birth, he had his own retail store and appeared to be doing well. Now he refuses to get a job because he feels he is above the jobs he can get. I have no interest in him other than him providing for his daughter. Since stealing from me my stepdad does not want him in the house to visit his daughter. He has only seen the baby 2 or 3 times in the past several months anyway.

I don't know what to do and need some advice. Please help me.
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