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Son in NY I am in TN help!

 
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Rachelschriener73



Joined: 10 Feb 2011
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State or Province: Tennessee

PostPosted: Thu Feb 10, 2011 10:46 am    Post subject: Son in NY I am in TN help! Reply with quote

I relocated to TN to escape a abusive relationship. My parents were granted lecal guardianship of my son. I wanted him to be able to finish school up there. I also needed to have residency here in Tn before attempting to regain custody here. During this time my parents stated that thye could no longer handle my 13 yr old son. And i was adviced to have the modification papers drawn up.

We had a court appearnce via telecommute. The judge stated he would not alow the modification to be switched. He stated that I had abandoned my son. That was not the case. It was discussed with my parents before i moved down here.

I had gone back up to Ny two times since relocating and the lst time i spent a month with my son.

His father, who has since recieved a dwai and was adviced that he neede to complete and pass a drug treatment has been shows leancy over and over again. he had to complete family treatment drug court he failked a drug test on the last day and the same judhe that we just went infront of alowed him to graduate even though he failed the last drug test. since then he has been on probabtion for the dwi and failed 3 more drugs tests and is still be alowe4d visitation. He also has my child sleeping on the floor when he comes over, on the floor no mattress or anything. He can not keep adaquate heat in the house and there ios no running water in the bathrooms.

I am at a loss as this judge has already made his descion and stated that he would not allow me to have him. I have medical isues and was adviced that moving to a warmer climate would be better for me. I have Rheumatoid arthristis and Fibro. I am also on ssi and he is holding that against me as well. I requested a hearing and he stated that i had better plan on making lots of trips up for court.

I need help. I have to be back up in Ny on March 15
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