Joined: 04 Jul 2011
State or Province: Tennessee
|Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2011 9:23 pm Post subject: Temporary order of protection based on lies....
my marriage was never good all those 4 years but I thought it is better for our kids (3 and 1.5 years old) to grow up with both parents....he tried several times to kick me out...even during both pregnancies.
My husband never did much with the kids besides laying arround in bed and watch TV.....he talks bad about me in presence of the kids and tells complete strangers (like in the waiting room of the kids doctor) that our daughter is not his...he also told our daughter several times that she will be a whore one day like her mother!!!!
Last week he moved out to his mother after I called the police because he said Iam not allowed anymore to ride the car...he told the police then that after he would gained full custody for his 14j old son from first marriage(that is going on at court since 1 year) he would then get rid of me!!!!
He left me and the kids 4 days alone, without money and an empty foodstamp card!!! Then his mom showed up and asked me if he could see the kids for a couple of hours....she never brought them back.After calling the cops they found out he filed an order of protection against me.....a complete lie...some things he wrote in there do not make sense even.
So I will go with my lawyer to the court this week....Iam sure I will get my kids back...he is actually the one who spanks the butt of our son hard almost every day, even if he is only stealing toys from his little sister...sometimes he so angry at our son that he threatens him by telling him he would like to punish him with a belt...the little one runs always to me then so I can protect him...I send him to his room for a time-out when he did something wrong and then we talk about it...my husband is then yelling that would not be a punishment and I should spank him like he does...but I never did that.
question: if the court decides this week that Iam not guilty...can I take the kids with me right on that day? I have a place to stay with the kids and I have financial help from my family and iam looking for a job.....so my husband can move back in the house.....and can I file for a restraining order so my husband cannot kidnap my kids?
Thanks for any kind of information....I miss my kids so much and I cry a lot when i look in their empty rooms....he does not care that they have to sleep now without their theddy bears and lovey blankets....and no Mom who reads them a good night story (he never did that).....I love my kids so much it feels like my heart is broken....