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disappointed1982



Joined: 27 Nov 2011
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State or Province: South Carolina

PostPosted: Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:50 pm    Post subject: Let's Talk Ladies Reply with quote

I see a lot of these posts on here are old. I believe it is very important for us women to be able to vent and discuss our problems openly since it seems like the courts are not being really fair to us.

I will get started by providing the background for my situation and when I get a reply we can go from there. I feel like I really need someone to talk to. I had my daughter in December 2007 and the father has done absolutely nothing. I worked very hard to take care of my child until I became sick and lost my job. Once I became sick I got on medicaid and that automatically started up child support. Now all of a sudden the father has asked for visitation which was granted to him. I'm not trying to bash the father but he is a drug addict, won't keep a job, beats women, has a long criminal record, and so forth.

When I was asking the courts to pursue child support nothing was done but when he asked for visitation he got it immediately. I feel so jilted. My baby is almost four--she's a big girl now and can do for herself and now he wants to be "daddy?" He is only doing it as a form of retaliation. I'm just mad because of all that me and my daughter had to sacrifice and now he wants visitation just to make me mad. As far as I am concerned the hard part is over--dirty diapers, making milk, sleepless nights, etc. Why am I the one being treated like I did something wrong? This criminal gets what he wants and I never could get the help I needed and deserved.
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