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lalala444



Joined: 07 Aug 2014
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State or Province: New York

PostPosted: Thu Aug 07, 2014 8:05 pm    Post subject: Questions regarding upcoming case in NY Reply with quote

Hi. I am still married to my husband and we have one child. We live in NY. We have been living apart since March 2013.

He is bringing me to court for visitation. I was never served so I never went to the first hearing, but I went down to family court yesterday to get a copy of the papers that I never received.

Husband is asking only for overnight visits and for our child to see his parents. He admits that he sees his child. He does not want a fixed schedule (at least he didn't ask for one in the papers).

I don't want her to go for overnights at his house because he has a mental condition as well as a drinking problem. He has also never asked for an over night visit since we split.
The other issue is that our child does see her grandparents. She's seen them as frequently as they ask to see her along with as often as there is an event involving them.

His father told me that my husband doesn't want him to see our daughter because he doesn't consider a visit with him and his father as a real 'visit.'

Oh, and lately, our daughter is refusing to go anywhere with her dad. This isn't just a bratty tantrum, this is a blood curdling scream and she acts like she's being kidnapped. She is currently in therapy and the therapist thinks that maybe she should take a few weeks break from her dad. I don't want to do that. Our daughter is also uncomfortable around my husband's new girlfriend and her son. The therapist says that she shouldn't be exposed to them right now. I tell this to my ex, but he doesn't listen.

Any advice for my situation?
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