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diana9831
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 9:14 pm    Post subject: is this a good idea?? Reply with quote

i am currently 17 and the father of my child is 22 i am 33 months pregnant and planning on not letting the father see the child til he takes me to court but i heard i shouldnt do that unless he can danger the child.i want to do this b/c for one we were never on good terms about our child b/c he is a complete loser doesnt have a diploma or GED and cannot keep a job and constantly lies he calls me drunk and messed up on other things all the time him and his family are all drug addicts and lives in a rough type neighborhood is this reason enough to keep a child from him or will i be the one getting in trouble for this in court??
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 9:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If u do wait to go to court to let the father see the baby, it may look bad on u the judge may think u are trying to keep the baby from its father.. As far as the drugs u need to have proof of it in court or the judge will do nothing about it.. U need to prove that he is an unfit father.. when i went to court the judge told me just because i gave birth to her doesnt make her anymore mine that his... which hurt becaue i have been ther with her ever min and he hasnt so i know how u feel.. I am 19 and i have a 19 month old.. i was also preg. at 17 so i know some of the things ur struggling with..
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 9:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree with dani8581, make sure you at least look like you are trying to keep the baby and father together, otherwise it will onlu look bad on your part. I understand your feelings because I have the same concerns but ultimately they have rights like we do and they will not be questioned unless you have evidence.
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