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Father demanding to take my son on his own

 
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Mammy in need



Joined: 19 Dec 2007
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 5:56 pm    Post subject: Father demanding to take my son on his own Reply with quote

can someone please help, my ex boyfriend is demanding to take my son a couple of times a week over to his house or he will not give money for my son, he lives with his mother an she is a recovering alcoholic and is also on stress pills, i feel my son would not be looked after properly as i have had many eperiences in his house with his mother falling down the stairs when she was so waisted and my son's father is also very immature an drives around like a mad man and im very afriad of my son been with him. when he found out i was pregnant he wanted nothin to do with me, he even wanted me to have an abortion and said he was moving to oz that i would be on my own. i got used to the idea of been on my own and now im afraid him and his family will bring me to court if i dont allow him to take my son on his own, also some of his friends have children and they take drugs around there kids and also have there kids in there cars while driving there cars at a very dangerous mannor. could someone please advise me on what the outcome could be if i brought this matter to the judge if it came to court and would the judge let him go over to that house without me???
thank u for taking your time to read im really desperate for advice.
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Sterling



Joined: 18 Feb 2006
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State or Province: Texas

PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 12:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You do not have to allow your child to go over to his dads house is if there is no court order in place. But on the same note if there is no court order of child support than dad doesn't have to pay it.

My recomendation, get a court order for child support! You also need to understand that if you file for child support your childs father will likely file back to establish paternity, child custody, visitation, etc....and he will get it all. He has rights to the child and a judge will allow him the right to take the child and have custody rights.
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