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jill



Joined: 14 Feb 2008
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State or Province: Pennsylvania

PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 6:46 am    Post subject: is this a strange arrangement Reply with quote

hi I need some feed back on a custody matter. my son is 20months old and his father and i are trying to reach an agreement, he wants every other weekend, which is fine as long as I have the baby all week, this is not how he wants to do it, he still wants to have 3 week nights also.its confusing, i would have the baby a friday to a friday, he would then have the weekend, I would have the baby Mon night, then he will have the baby tues, wed thurs,. I would then have the baby fri-fri again. Isn't this a strange arrangement?
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Still in Love



Joined: 05 Sep 2006
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State or Province: California

PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 4:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would not agree to that... if you are doing this via mediation, don't agree to it, tell the mediator you want primary physical custody, with dad having reasonable visitation. every other weekend, and one night during the week till 8pm.

What he is trying to do is have the baby on a 50/50 split, or more and that way he doesn't have to pay you any support money at all.

he can also take the income tax return as well. If you are wanting support, and to be able to claim your child on income taxes, then you need to maintain more then 60% of your child's time.
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