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lovemykiddos85



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State or Province: California

PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 1:22 pm    Post subject: I need help please! Reply with quote

I believe that fathers are getting the upper hand with the courts. I am going through a terrible time with my sons father. Ever since I told him I was pregnant he accused me of cheating and denied our son. I filed for custody and he wanted to take our son away from me. The courts denied him because I was nursing. But then they turned around and said if I want to continue to nurse I have to give the father all supplies (including expressed milk). He was only granted to see our son one day a week 4 hours at a time. Which he never does. There is always some excuse as to why he can't come see him. Now I am in a situation where I live with my mom and my two kiddos. My mom is being transfered out of state. I have no where else to go but to go with her. I gave my sons father a call to let him know what was going on and he wouldn't agree with me on anything. I was even nice enough to say he can have more visitation and he said he wont agree with me on anything. I then said to him so you want me and the kids to live in my car. He then hung up on me (how grown up of him). I went to the courthouse and paid for an Order to Show Cause and am going to be heard by a judge. I was told that the judge could just hand my son over to him and say I can only have visitation. I don't feel its right because my sons father has never been apart of his life. He missed his first christmas, his first birthday, and everyday in between. But now all of a sudden he wants him because I'm having to move.

If anyone has any advise please let me know. Im losing my mind!
Thank you
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