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Anita



Joined: 10 Jul 2008
Posts: 1
State or Province: Kentucky

PostPosted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:56 pm    Post subject: please help Reply with quote

Hi im new to this site, maybe someone can give me some advice. I have a 6yr old son, i have a partner who's not my childs dad, we'v been together for 2yrs now. Hes great with my son but we both live with our parents. Iv been wanting to get our own place as my mother drives me crazy and we cant agree on anything anymore. she wants me out!! my partner loves living with his parents and isnt keen on moving... i dont no what to do and im scared of just my son and i liven together as i cant afford it alone and i know it would destroy my relationship with my partner and his family..iv tryed talking to him but he withdraws from the conversation and it becomes an argument and he threatens to finish our relationship everytime!!! wat am i going to do i dont want to loose him but i do want a peaceful home for my son!! please help Question
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MaryM



Joined: 20 Apr 2006
Posts: 52
State or Province: New Jersey

PostPosted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 7:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like you only have a few choices.

1. Stay at home a while longer and try to make it work.
2. Find a room mate (female) other then your partner to share the expenses Ė so you can still see your partner.
3. Or rent a room from someone who could take you both in.

As far as your partner, if he is threatening to finish the relationship, maybe he is not the one. When you find the one they wonít put threats like that out there trying to control you.

Sometimes if we donít have the money, we have to stick things out. Maybe small changes can make a big difference with your mom. Try asking her what you could change, within reason, to make her get off your case for a while.

-MaryM
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