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krystie



Joined: 23 Mar 2009
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State or Province: Kentucky

PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:06 pm    Post subject: What do I do? Were do I go? Reply with quote

I am 22 years old and about five months pregnant. I am unsure how to go about telling the father it is his kid. He tells me its not his kid and that he dont want to have anything to do with it and thats fine. But what i am really afraid with is the fact that what if he does want to have something to with him? Hes a horrible person! He consitay got physical with me and he was very mentally abusive toward me. He lives with a couple and there kid who hates me behond belief and would do anythign to try and take my child from me but what Im worried about is what if they do? The house is covered in dog poop and pee and they never have any food in there home. They are nasty unsanatary people. What if the father has one of his bi-polor spells and hurts my kid like he hurt me? Do I have that right to keep him form hes kid? How do i know what I have the right to and to not due. These laywers that i have been calling wants me to give them 200.00 up front to just talk to me about it. Im scared to tell him that hes the father. What else will he make me go through? How many more times will he mentally abuse me and tnegitive toward me. Im lost If there is anyone that can please help I beg of you. I need all of the advice I can get. Sad Confused
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Still in Love



Joined: 05 Sep 2006
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State or Province: California

PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 10:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Right now... he has no rights what so ever and unless he is listed and proved to be the biological father, he doesn't get any rights.

If you aren't married to him, then he would need to sign an affadavit of paternity or the courts would make him take a paternity test.

If you don't want anything from him financially, then just cease all contact with him all together... go your own way and don't contact him when you have the child.

now... later, if he decides that he wants to find out he would need to petition you for visitation and the paternity stuff would be done then and he would be given just as much right to his child as you are... then you would need to request home assessments and evals and all that good stuff, but as long as you are pregnant he doesn't have a single right to your child.
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