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felrwil



Joined: 31 Jan 2009
Posts: 5
State or Province: Oklahoma

PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 1:03 pm    Post subject: what do I do Reply with quote

My baby's dad wants to get back together and I refuse, in the last 3 years he has lied and manipulated everything to his benefit. But now, he says that he wants to see his daughter more often and is wanting to come by the house every week to see her. Do I have to allow this, or is this something I can say no to? We do not have an order in place, we will be going in front of the judge next month to get it settled.
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Still in Love



Joined: 05 Sep 2006
Posts: 216
State or Province: California

PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 6:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You can allow him to come over every other... or tell him that you would prefer to meet him somewhere public... it does not have to be every week...

You should go to court and speak with a mediator and have a plan already in mind that you want like every other weekend and one evening during the week from 4 to 8... two weeks for vacation a year that are non consecutive weeks... and he can have the child on fathers day.

You will split xmas... and easter and thanksgiving will be alternated.
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