Joined: 07 Aug 2009
State or Province: Texas
|Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 2:39 am Post subject: dads that work the child support system to their advantage
|My babydaddy is BIPOLAR! He can put on the most professional sweetest front for anyone! HE was an angel the whole time we dated then I got pregnant. He broke up with me and had me on an emotional roller coaster for 9mos. Denied baby at birth and 15mos later he lives with another woman and has a baby born already!
1. When my baby was 5mos he shovedme and swung around my baby. I made a police report...but i didn't press charges because my lawyer directed me not to. NOW I regret it. HE hasn't been violent since then.
2. He is verbally abousive to me and my mom during most of the exchanges of the child.
3. THe police is usually at each exchange. NOw we exchange at the police station and I don't want my baby growing up around the police.
4. He has a crazy sister that teams up with him to videotape and cause drama.
His parents are so frustrated by him and his sister that they band me from coming over withthe baby and calling to check on our baby. HIs parents are so disrespectful as well. I feel so pushed out of the picture and I am the mom.
I plan to take him back to court but what could the courts do at this point? Since he was violent to me and my baby 1 time is that enough to lessen his visitation?
I feel so caught because he is bold enough to take me to court over small stuff and he is the one causeing all the drama! HELP?