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ChristiC
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 9:05 pm    Post subject: How do THEY get away with this>>!! Reply with quote

Hi- Mom of seven (married twice)4 older kids on their own and one 3 yr old w/ me now. My Ex got custody of our 2 kids 2 years ago. He is in Illinois, I am in CAlifornia. The judge through out my divorce reply papers stating that they were a day late -illegally counting weekends and the after 6pm friday summons to me) I had no attorney and lost custody. I couldn't get there. He had kidnapped the kids while I was at work, disapeared for months and established residency there to file.
My children are living in canton, Il., where my ex's brother( a registered sexual offender) is also living in the home with them. He had sex w/ a teen at the age of 35. My ex also has a history of molestation within his own family- by him and other awful things that are known to people and officials who live in his town. He grew up there, was arrested for peeping, stealing womens underwear, etc.He has now picked up a woman in a casino, who has moved in with them all. She has proceeded to put me down in front of the children, email me horrible letters & even stated that My children where 'now HERS", I get messages on my machine with her spiting me.... My daugher, 12, calls me daily in tears. She can't come to visit me and now the new woman says that she's not allowed to call. I have tried EVERYTHING..nothing works..my Ex is an expert at the "model behavior" that the state workers want to see.Even though he is currently unemployed, on AFDc and milking the state for every penny that he can get. He sits on his butt all day and plays computer games and goes online to "cyber' and god only knows what else.The new Gf is am RN and makes a lot of money.
I would love to have an email pal..anyone who can relate to this nightmare...Please?
Thanks ladies- Christi- AngelBrightB@aol.com
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 9:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ChristiC

Fathers rights groups are very politically strong, and that is how they are getting away with this. They are the biggest con-artists out there and oh yes they are gloating over how they are getting away with this. These so called fathers care nothing about the children, but only care how they can use them as a tool for revenge against the mother for daring to leave them, the men, for a better life, and men are learning very quickly that this is the way out of child support. Never kid yourself into thinking that these men really love their children, they are much more concerned about what is in their back pockets. By the way, never buy a Ford product as they support the fathers righters. Mothers and childrens civil rights are being violated every day in the family courts systems. Violent abusive men are winning custody of children all across this nation. Thousands upon thousands of women and children can and are relating to your nightmare every day.
It will all crumble one day as you cannot keep seperating mother and child and have anything keep working on a normal bases. The saddest part of all of this is the damage that these children have to endure, most will have irreversiable mental damage, and most of the blame falls on the politician's and the judges who have allowed this to happen.
Get a copy of his record and start pounding the pavement and letting people know what he is.

Barbara
Wisconsin
Mothers Unite!!
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ChristiC
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 9:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi,I just went threw the same similiar bull you have and you hit he nail right on the head these men don't care at all about their children and it is all political game ran by dirty politicians and croocked judges as well.But in order to fight back we women must all petition the courts because we have been wronged discriminated against and should start this world wide maybe even march threw the courts ,men have done it and look what the got,it's time for women to say enought is enougth and dpo a petition long enough to cover the US, then they have no other recourse but to change things.It's all about unity for all women,and a fight we must start to end this madness.
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 4:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Have you thought of hiring a private investigator to "watch" the house?
The things you are saying are great- as long as you have some kind of proof, pictures or some kind of documentation to show the judge.
If you could get something that is "recent" that would be a VERY good start.
You would have to file for a new custody case in his county and state.
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