Joined: 26 Jan 2018
State or Province: California
|Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2018 5:35 am Post subject: YOU time
|Hi there, it sounds like you're going through a difficult patch.
You need to take some time out for yourself! Do you have any friends? Any family nearby?
You need to end your relationship, it's a waste of time if he doesn't make you happy. Then ask a friend or family member to go out to lunch or to the movies. Make time to do things for yourself, but with friends so that you don't feel so lonely.
Try to do more activities with your kids (they can be cheap or free) so that they see you as a fun mom and to remind yourself that your life isn't as bad as it seems, it's just a rough patch.
I dont know how extreme your situation is, so if you ever really feel down like your life isn't worth living, go and see a professional! You ave 2 beautiful children who love and need their mother, and you sound like a great mom. If it's not that extreme, I think you can improve your life by just spending more time doing things you enjoy - break the routine a little.
If you have someone to talk to, do it, as soon as you talk about your feelings you'll feel the weight lifted. Hopefully a friend, sibling, parent, or if necessary a doctor or helpline.
Bets of luck