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Why do i keep messing up my life?????

 
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can i get anything right



Joined: 06 Jan 2007
Posts: 2
State or Province: Louisiana

PostPosted: Sat Jan 06, 2007 12:52 pm    Post subject: Why do i keep messing up my life????? Reply with quote

Ok I know babies are suppose to bring you joy and happiness but not this time. Let me explain. I'm divorced for 6 years now. I started seeing a guy 5 and 1/2 years ago. In September I found out I was pregnant but by then we had already broken up. When I found out and told him he wasn't happy, and then I found out why. Not only had he been cheating the whole time with EVERYONE AND ANYONE he could cheat with, but he started seeing a girl who lives 15 minutes from my house and they just had a baby girl. I was in school at the time but had to drop out because of high risk pregnancy.(My 13 yr old son was born 2 months early and I had a miscarriage 2 years ago.) Anyway I started working full time but then had to go out on bed rest due to complications in my pregnancy. I was out of work for 3 weeks. No pay check, no help from him. I can only work 2 days a week, I'm behind on all of my bills, he won't help me and I can't afford to pay for groceries and I just feel like I have messed up my life completly. He says if I start dating someone he'll take me to court and get as many rights as he can. He has the money to do this and he knows how broke I am and how limited to what I can and can't do. I've tried finding another job but no one will hire me being pregnant espically with 4 months to go. I've suffered depression all my life, but I am truly at the end now. Will any guy ever want to be with me? Is he really out there? If things get any worse, I don't know what I'll do. Most days I don't want to get out of bed, but I have to take my son to school and then 1 or 2 days go to work. The rest of the time, I spend laying in bed. I don't want to lose the baby, and at first I was so happy but now, I'm so alone and so miserable and I really don't know which way to turn. Can I ever get things right? Who is gonna want to be with a girl who is in her 30's has 2 kids with different dads and different last names, who does nothing but make wrong decissions?? Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad
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lonelytasha



Joined: 17 Oct 2007
Posts: 3
State or Province: Ohio

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 6:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sweetheart it will get better... things could be worse... what you need right now is to concentrate on that little precious baby inside of you and know that it is a wonderful gift. SCREW him... do not let him get anything over on you. You will find someone, and you will truely be happy, but right now you need to concentrate on getting through this pregnancy... well all have our low points but you will get over this. Trust me, it gets better with time.
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NannyM



Joined: 07 Oct 2007
Posts: 44
State or Province: Maryland

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You need to talk with your OBGYN about how you are feeling. They may be able to help get you past felling so down. And don't worry about the father or anything he says right now. You can cross that bridge after your child is born.
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