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momaj



Joined: 14 Aug 2007
Posts: 5
State or Province: Virginia

PostPosted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 6:35 pm    Post subject: another newbie Reply with quote

I am presently in a custody battle with my future ex for my 2 little boys. They are 2.5 yrs and 8 mo. He moved out of state, talked about divorce; I filed for custody as things got worse, he stayed out of state (then got a job). Now he is trying to gain custody of the kids by claiming I am negligent/abusive (as he says I don't feed my 2 yr old) and I am mentally unstable-he's not very original in his accusations. The court here is horrible. The judge sentenced my 2 yr old to go back and forth between the homes. 2 weeks here, 2 weeks there-this has been going on for almost 9 mo and you can guess it is affecting him badly. And There is 500 miles from home. They are trying to do the same to the youngest as well. The judge has made very negative comments about breastfeeding (which I do) including that my youngest will take a bottle if he is hungry enough even tho my older son wouldn't. The judge has ordered me out of my house, where I have a childcare business so my husband has a place to stay and he can visit with the boys without me there-which that means that he actually has more time with the older one then I do. The court is jacked up to say the least. I am meeting with my lawyer tomorrow and am searching the net for any help I can get and I found this support forum. Very nice to meet everyone!
One more tidbit; my husband wants me to move to where he is even though we are getting a divorce, I have no family up there and no support and all this is going on and I would have no way to support myself...because I am still his wife. Confused
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SONJIA



Joined: 26 Dec 2007
Posts: 1
State or Province: California

PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 10:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

IT'S REALLY Sad THAT YOU HAVE PLENTY NO GOOD FATHERS OUT THERE.
THAT IS VERY ABUSIVE AND NO/GOOD Evil or Very Mad THEY USE THE COURT
SYSTEM TOO THEIR ADVANTAGE. THEY INTERGATES THESE CHILDREN
AND TEACHES THEM TOO HATE US. THEY DRAW A BAD PICTURE OF
THE REAL GOOD DADS THATS OUT THERE. SEEMS LIKE THE COURTS OR ON THEIR SIDE. BECAUSE WE SOMETIMES DON'T HAVE THE MONEY
TOO GET GREAT REPRESENTION.

OR WE FIGHTING A LOSING BATTLE, OR WHAT. I GUESS WE HAVE
TOO WAIT UNTIL THEY TURN EIGHTEEN?
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